14 May If your angry at one of your parents, the one question that could change everything!
Ask them to share with you what kind of role model their parents and grandparents were to them
Their answer may change your feelings.
We are a product of our environment, and the blame for harm in many cases can go back generations ago.
UNLESS WE ACCEPT THE TRUTH THAT BLAMING THEM FOR THEIR ACTIONS IS DIFFERENT THAN BLAMING THEM FOR OUR FEELINGS~!
We only know what we know. They (our parents) learned what they were taught by their parents.
We always learn from our parents good or bad, either way we learn either what to do and what to teach others, or what NOT to do.
If both cases, what we learned from what parents taught us…… how to be better people and be better parents!